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There are times in any relationship, that the other person will get on your nerves.  Have you ever experienced this?  There’s someone very close to you - a husband, wife, other family member or friend - and they’ve said something that upsets you, or they behave in a way that you really don’t like.   The problem is, they’re a huge part of your life and you love them - you just don’t like them very much right now.

Here’s a great tip on how to handle these situations.  Make a list of all the things you like about the person.  Are they funny, do they tell great stories, are they great listeners?  How about the times they cheer you up or the great parties they have.  Everyone has great qualities and if they’re in your life, there’s something about them that you can appreciate.

By focusing on all the things you love about the person, you’ll shift from being irritated or upset with them, to being grateful for having them in their life.  Gratitude is the most powerful method of attracting great things into your life.  You may also consider sharing that list with the person in the form of a gratitude card.  It will make both of you feel good and the other person will focus too on all the great things you feel about them.

Knowing that the law of attraction brings to us what we put our focus and energy to, you’ll soon start seeing more of the qualities you love about that person being brought out in your interactions with them.

Tags: gratitude, Law of Attraction, Relationships