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your circle of influence

If there was one very defining element to your thought processes, your feelings and therefore ultimately your actions and your results it would be your circle of influence.  Having said that we know:

Your Feelings + Your Thoughts + Your Actions = Your Results

This is the basic equation that “allows” you to use the Law of Attraction to your benefit.  As long as you are feeling good and positive you will have good and positive thoughts.  It is these thoughts that produce the vibrations you are having right now and right now.  It is also what determines what action you are going to perform right now and right now and of course the completion of the equation will be your results. Your vibrations are as a result of your choice of action.  Turn the TV on and watch your favorite program or sit and write that blog post that you had been thinking about all day.  Lay on the Couch and relax or pick up your copy of Napolean Hill’s Think and Grow Rich therefore enriching your mind and your feelings and thoughts.

So what do I mean by your circle of influence, and how do they affect your feelings and thought processes?  Well  your circle of influence is your choice of associations:

Work Mates,

Family Members,

Bosses,

Children

Neighbours,

Friends,

Associates, just to name a few of the people around you.

Now it is very tough to control your associations with these people, no matter what their ideas, ideals and even their feelings and thought processes are.  These are people that you have to and yes even want to associate with.  You will never change their outlooks, ideas or ideals, you can only change your own. How do you do that you ask?

Simple — add some new associations.  This does not have to take going out and meeting new people or anything drastic.  You can look for role models, people that you would like to emulate and people that are, have and do the things you would like to do.

One of my first recommended courses of action to expand your circle of influence is to work with a life coach.  There are many books that you can read to expand your associations, or at least feel like you have.  Take some time to reflect on your associations, and determine if they are the right ones to allow the Law of Attraction to expand your horizons and experience real personal growth.



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